Goa Solo Trip- part 2; Navigating the Waves of Solo Travel

 Good Morning Pals,

Hope you all are doing well. In my last post, I shared the exhilarating experience of surfing on the vibrant beaches of Goa. However, every journey has its highs and lows, and in the spirit of transparency, I feel to share one of the challenging moments during my solo trip.

While exploring the picturesque landscapes of Goa, I encountered a disconcerting situation that served as a stark reminder of the misconceptions surrounding solo travel. During my stay, I reconnected with an old friend living in Goa, a person with whom I had maintained social media ties. He was married with two children, and due to work commitments, he resided alone in the city. The prospect of exploring the local culture with someone familiar seemed appealing, so I agreed to meet up.

However, what unfolded was an uncomfortable encounter that left me questioning the boundaries of friendship and the assumptions people make about solo travelers. Despite being married, my friend seemingly saw my solo status as an opportunity for something more. He not only invited me to stay with him but also hinted at indulging in activities he clearly wanted to keep hidden from others. I appreciate the tour of the city that he provided, and I am genuinely thankful for the local insights. Yet, the discomfort arising from his inappropriate advances tarnished what could have been a positive experience. It left me pondering whether my decision to embark on a solo journey inadvertently conveyed a message that I was open to such advances. It's disheartening to think that solo travelers, especially women, may be perceived as more accessible or willing to engage in intimate encounters. The assumption that one's independence implies a readiness for romantic involvement is not only unfair but also perpetuates harmful stereotypes. Traveling alone is an empowering choice, allowing individuals to explore new horizons, meet diverse people, and grow personally. It does not signal a willingness to compromise personal boundaries or engage in situations that make one uncomfortable.

In sharing this experience, my hope is to shed light on the challenges that solo travelers may face, encouraging a broader conversation about the need for mutual respect and understanding in the realm of travel, regardless of one's chosen path.

This was my other side of the solo trip, along with this I would like to share a few pictures of this trip. Hope you will read my blog and comment on it.

Till then take care of yourself and the people around you, who always check on you.

Riding the Waves of Freedom: My 5-Day Solo Trip to Goa for a Surfing Course

Helllooooooo Love ones!!!

I am back, sorry for my absence for a while. But I have so many exciting things to share with you all. You all know that I am a trekker by heart, but because of my knee injury, I have to take a pause from trekking. So I decided to explore the ocean this time. Here is all about my experience. In the following blog, I will share my other experiences in Goa.

My 5-day solo trip to Goa for a surfing course was more than just a holiday; it was a journey of self-discovery, growth, and a newfound love for the ocean. Goa's beaches, friendly locals, and the thrill of surfing have left an indelible mark on my heart. It's a reminder that sometimes, it's the solo adventures that push us out of our comfort zones and help us find our true potential. So, if you're looking for a thrilling experience and a chance to ride the waves of freedom, consider embarking on your own solo surfing adventure in Goa. You won't regret it. Picture yourself on a warm, sun-soaked beach, the rhythmic sound of waves crashing, and the wind in your hair as you ride your scooter along the scenic coastal roads. This was my reality during a 5-day solo trip to Goa, where I not only took a surfing course but also explored the picturesque landscapes of this coastal paradise on a hired scooter.

Day 1: The Arrival

After checking into my beachfront accommodation, I couldn't wait to get started. I was scared too, as it was a new city for me. I took a walk to the beach and enjoyed the sunset.

Day 2: Surfing Adventures

My second day was all about getting acquainted with the fundamentals of surfing. The instructors were incredibly patient and supportive. By the end of the 1st lesson, I was riding my first wave, and the feeling was nothing short of euphoric. The ocean had cast its spell on me, and I couldn't wait for more. After my class, I decided to explore Goa's pristine beaches on my hired scooter. 

Day 3: Exploring Goa's Beaches

With my newly acquired surf skills, With each passing day, I could feel my confidence growing. Learning to find my balance on the board was a test of both physical and mental strength. As I wiped out several times, I realized that surfing wasn't just a sport; it was a metaphor for life—fall, rise, and ride again. Apart from my surfing lesson I explored churches, forts of Goa

Day 4: Riding the Coastal Roads

The thrill of standing up on the board and riding a wave was a feeling of freedom and accomplishment like no other. Another bliss is Shopping in Goa. The flea market is super exciting.

Day 5: The Grand Finale

On the final day of my trip, I couldn't resist squeezing in a morning surf session. The feeling of riding the waves was like meditation, and it filled me with a sense of accomplishment. In the afternoon, I cruised along the coastline on my scooter one last time, capturing memories and taking in the vibrant Goan culture.

I will be waiting for your comments on my post. Till then take care of yourself and the people around you.